Tuesday, December 31, 2019



Step 1
Write down 9 digits numbers on a paper. You  samcan repeate number many times as per your wish to make it line of 9 numbers.

Step 2
Add on all the numbers together.

Step 3
Now add 3 to the total.

For Eg. 985627143= 45+3= 48

As a added tool break up the number eg. 48 , read 4 and 8 , read 48. Also read 12 and 3 because 4+8= 12= 3. (Some don't like break 11 & 22 because these are master numbers.)


 It is in the your bedroom or the room you spend most of your time. Near something white also question a child if he/she was around , use your discretion here.

House maid might have left near a vase or bowl (container) while cleaning.

 It has fallen in the passage or between papers or a book etc.

check your pockets or articles you carried last or wore last .

its near a hat or helmet.

its in the shoe closet or near a rack or stand. Also check the shelves you handled last.

check the wardrobe and question your spouse or maid.

A workman or butler knows where it is , possibility on edge of a ledge of something.

A child was playing with.

 check your study or office.

its near water check the pool, bathroom or water dispenser if at work.

 also in the office or inside a book or some papers.

look where hung your coat last like behind or under chair or desk.

 it may haven in the drain or bathroom recovery is doubtful, rare but sometimes near a persons head gear like hats, helmets.

 check your garage, if you own horses check your stables as well. Failing there ask your spouse.

 If you have a cook ask her or spouse, it is possible an argument occurred earlier with these people over your negligence and later found the object that you lost and waiting
To give you a peace of their mind.

 if you have artwork or paint check there , check jewellery box.

its in house among some clothes if went on trip check suitcase.

in child's sand box or park. Mostly a dry area with no vegetation, if you went to beach recently ....good luck

 its near water , also swimming area and the pool change room.

Its in a sqaure or rectangular shaped artice that folds in two parts, like some old Jewellery boxes.

 its in the house near shelf , like book shelves.

Its in the laundry room.

check your pockets again or briefcase thoroughly.

Check near something white and round,  A large serving platter perhaps.

Ask the elder person of the house, he/she kept it at the safe place, or hide it just to teach you a lesson to keep the things at the safe place.

Garage, or The taxi man or your chauffeur should be questioned, or that place where animals are kept.

dead loss...accept the loss of item , true acceptance sees it being replaced by 28 because it aint too late.

an old trusted sub-subservient person like old cleaner at work who respects you and whom you found endearing.

With some kids/ students or during lecture or at study place.

 near a drain or area where if you not careful its gone for good or in a dark corner of a closet.

 its in a balcony or verandas between the post is suspect and about to fall

pockets again something you just wore.

near a heater, gas or fireplace

washing stand, near water fountain in an hidden area but always near some water.

ask the nanny, servant.

in a pooja room, or temple or church must have fallen there

if Search a place where you go to meditate. Or you need to do a short journey to that place which is utilised by you for work or for personal belongings, or may be a locker.

 its on table or shelf where you were busy last.

it might be a small item ,may be you wrapped it with something, check inside your handkerchief or kept near linen you were with last or just bought.

near your spouse's shoe, or shoe rack.

ask the chef, or cook again

garage or stables again.

its fallen in oil or something oily like a lamp or the car.

on a shelf higher than you see, making it just out off sight

 your girlfriend, boy friend etc has it.

two people whom you have bad relations with have it, or two servants.

near a glass of water

its lost and badly damaged

inside something that opens in two parts

Check in washroom, ir in the place of ablution to you

your wife or partner has lent to her relative

 a friend has found it and will return it

 Try the children's playroom

its near a pipe or drain around the premises

Check where you parked the car or where you where last

If you fish its near your fishing back or saddle bag. Hip pocket.

two rogues have schemed and taken it ...

Near the bread tin or where the flour is kept

its beyond recovery, whoever has found either doesn't know you or refuses to return it.

in the basement or shed near shoes or a hose

 lost, won't be found.

its in a dark place in the corner near old articles

 this article will turn up when you are searching for something else in the near future

unlikely recovery but assistance is required, by doing legally complaints, like in the case of a stolen car.

 the man with a disabled or maimed hand knows who has it.

ask a child to help you , one that knows your routine

its in the attic or on top of the house, where you painting the roof

Near the entrance of the house of a relative you just visited.

near water, like a shower area in the gym etc...

Quickly trace your last steps, or search on a floor

 Near water again or washing area, water tank

ask around , like co-workers , kids in that area you suspect you lost it

a friend or old servant has kept away safely.

 two instigators have it, in a damaged condition, or may be with a youngster

 its in the kitchen, or where you kept food stuffs, cereals, grains etc.

a neighbor has found it, or locate at a short distance away.

78 its fell in a car park and found by another, check the car guard

 its near steel or iron, use discretion here

 old jewelry box or briefcase or old shoe box

 check your backpack or clothing drawers

 check the kitchen  area

a young girl has it , who was using your pool

inside the house in a square fitment that open in two parts.

Use your imagination or intuitive mind, or at possible places  related with these above options.

Sunday, November 3, 2019



Basically, Vastu Shastra is a science of directions in Architecture. It's an ancient science of energy balancing to establish harmony between the five elements.(Fire, Earth, Air, Water & Sky). These five elements are found everywhere, including our body. When any one of these elements happens to less or excess in our body it results into physical or psychological imbalance.

Vastu Shastra is created by combining art, science, astronomy and astrology. Vastushastra is a centuries-old science, which includes the principles and philosophy of architecture, which is very important in any building construction, right from the entrance to the other parts of the building including courtyards.

Each property comes with it's own energy type, a person dwelling in that property comes under the influence of specific energy field, which in turn influences on that person in positive or negative way. It is believed that Vastu Shastra helps to improve our life and keep away negativity. The energy source will also include magnetic, thermal and electrical energy, use of such energies in a proper way gives pleasure, peace & prosperity in life. Vastu shastra keeps to be in a safe environment away from negative elements.

Vastu can be used for any type of house, temple, shops,or office. So that the negative effects of energy flowing around us can be avoided and If there is disturbance in the combination of magnetic, thermal and electrical energy, whose effect starts to affect our body and thoughts negatively, could be balanced.

It's like to keep a particular thing at a particular place. There is a right place for every thing, to keep every energy like. for example, if you keep water in your hand then nothing happens but when you keep fire on your hand, your hand will burn. Vastu Shastra works to maintain a combination of energies so that it can be used for human welfare.

Now a days, many people show their interest in Vastu Shastra, not only in India, but all around the world. It's was found during the time of  Ramayana and Mahabharata also, and even in Harappa and Mohenjo Daro. Lord Vishwakarma is the lord of Vastu shastra and Architecture. It is believed that Lord Vishwakarma have created the palaces of all Gods

Here are few points which shows the connection between Vastu and Science:-

* As per Vastu, source of water in the house should be in the northeast. Sun rises in the east, the rays of the Sun falling on the source of water located in the northeast angle destroy harmful bacteria and germs originated in water. Science recognize that rays of Sun have the power to destroy harmful germs.
* As per Vastu, don't plant trees in East direction. By planting trees in the East, there shadow doesn't allow light to come in house properly. As per science, sunlight and fresh air in the house is beneficial for health, so by planting trees in this direction hurdles fresh light to come in.
*As per Vastu, we should sleep by keeping head in South and feet in North. Scientifically, the head of human being acts as the north pole of the magnet, and feet of south pole. When we head turned towards the north, it creates distraction from the north pole of the earth, and disrupting the blood flow of body. Therefore, for good health, it is advisable to sleep with head in south direction and feet in north direction.

Wednesday, October 30, 2019



Law of attraction is an energy to attract vibration of universe towards your manifestation. Every human being has desires but how to achieve those most important. These desires always are in your thoughts, consciously or subconsciously. In this case you can use Law of Attraction to manifest those desires, by focus deeply and positively. Our thoughts are like magnet, and energy in universe is like iron. This energy attracts towards our thoughts like a magnet attract towards iron. So it's very important to keep your thoughts positive. So that positive things happen to you. Whatever energy we deliver same will react by the universe.

Steps for manifesting your goal:-

Most important is to  make a clear decision about what exactly you want . Then you can start by laying the foundation of your dreams.
When you are clear with your desire then start visualizing. Focus on the desire with full energy.
After that set up an affirmation of your desire and write it down as many times as you can or whenever you get time.
Then start taking an physical actions which take you to move towards your goal. Taking action is very important part of aligning yourself with the magic of Law if Attraction.
Do good karmas to raise your positive vibration, because whatever comes around goes around. Negative karmas or negative thinking may create hindrances in your path to achieve your goal.
Positive approach is very important as universe doesn't understand word "NOT". For example if you say " I don't want to fail in exam" then universe will not get the word "NOT". It will take as " I do want to fail". So always wish for what you want instead of wishing what you don't want.
So be positive and optimistic to make your dreams come true.

Tuesday, October 22, 2019


DIWALI is celebrated for a variety of reasons, although the main theme which runs throughout is the victory over darkness and good over evil. Diwali, literally means rows (avail) of clay lamps (deepa). People light their homes and work places to symbolize the victory of light over darkness,That is why Diwali is also referred to as the Festival of Lights.
Drawing ॐ on Dhanteras
On Dhanteras or Dhantrayodashi day, drawing ॐ (Om symbol) at the main entrance with the paste of turmeric and rice (after grinding freshly), would bring wealth and prosperity at home.
In Vedic astrology, remedies are available for all sorts of obstacles and problems in human life. Diwali remedies are performed to seek money and wealth and these are considered highly effective. Some remedies are quite simple and integral part of normal Puja activities performed during Diwali.


The combined Lakshmi-Ganesha Yantra is called Maha Yantra and considered highly effective. Installing Lakshmi-Ganesha Yantra with full Vedic ritual on the auspicious day of Deepavali brings everlasting wealth and prosperity at home. This should be performed by a learned Pandit only.

*Recite Shri Sukta, Laxmi sukta and Kanakdhara stotra  to glorify the Goddess of wealth and prosperity i.e. Goddess Lakshmi.

*No other offering would please Goddess Lakshmi more than that of lotus flowers. If lotus flowers are not available then perform Lakshmi Japa with garland made of lotus seeds. Doing 108 Japa with Kamal-Gatte garland would be equivalent of 108 offering of lotus flowers to Goddess Lakshmi.

*An Owl or an Ullu, Maa's vahan accompanying the goddess of wealth, denotes wisdom in using the wealth. It is believed that the Owl is auspicious is achieving success.
Place a picture or image of an Owl where you keep your money. It could be either at home or in office. Install this image during Pradosh period and this will help boost income and wealth through out the year.

*On Diwali night, tie an Owl feather and peacock feather together with a red thread and hang it at the main entrance. This remedy helps provide wisdom, good health, wealth, knowledge and prosperity to the family.

*It is very auspicious to place and use 11 Yellow Kaudi, 11 Lotus seeds, swastika and Om along with Sitting Photograph of Maa Lakshmi and Lord Ganesha for prosperity.

*Lite an earthen diya with Mustard oil at the main door and put 5 beads of Black chimri beads for prosperity and peace in house.

*Tie 11 Haldi pieces in yellow cloth and chant “Vakratundaye Humn” for 108 times and place the yellow cloth in your safe for inflow of wealth for whole year.

*Place Kali haldi and silver coin with sindoor on them in red cloth and tie them in your home for wealth and protection from nazar dosh.

*Place 11 kowdi with haldi , put kumkum on them and then offer these to Maa Lakshmi on Diwali night. Next day place these Kowdi’s in red cloth and place them in your safe, Maa Lakshmi will always bless you with wealth and Peace.

*Place Crystal Shree Yantra in your Puja place (North )for wealth and Goddess Lakshmi 's blessings.

*Daily chant a Mala (108 time) the mantra"Om Shreem Hreem Shreem Mahalakshmye Namha"

*Keep Seven Ashoka Tree Leaves in your Puja place and replace them after they get dry.

*After Diwali puja at your place, it’s very important to blow Shankh and play Damru as it make Goddess Lakshmi very happy and brings prosperity at home.

                                      HAVE A BLESSED DIWALI FOR ALL OF YOU


Thursday, October 17, 2019



We all have heard that Marriages are made in Heaven, it may be true, but keeping that relationship intact on earth is very important thing. It's an amazing experience, one day someone walks into your life, and then it was difficult for you to live without him. Having someone special in your life is true blessing only if that person loves and understands you, else it end up in heart broken situation.
"A perfect marriage is just two imperfect people who refuse to give up on each other".
Finding true love and understanding is very difficult in today's life style, as everyone need space, but once you have found it, then there is nothing more important than that.

Few secrets of Happy Married Life

Relationships are like tides. When it is high, you feel joyful, full of marital bliss, but once tide starts to flow back, suddenly everything lost.

Perfect marriage requires one couple who understand, support, love, laugh, share joys and sorrows with each other. It's not lack of love, its basically lack of understanding and friendship which makes marriage unhappy. Learn to accept flaws of each other, living with them and forgive each other makes marriage perfect.

Every person is different from another, mentally, physically and spiritually. True Marriage is about letting those differences get overshadowed by real love, trust, care and understanding.

Couple relationship is not just about love, it is about, friendship, understanding, commitment, giving and taking. With whom you spend your entire life, with that person you have to share everything, joy, sorrow, success, defeat. Learn to do compromises and most important is trust your partner. If there is trust and love between a couple, then they can bear all the hardships of life with the support of their partner.

One should build the self esteem of each other, when failures push you down. A few positive word from whom you trust and love from bottom of your heart can do wonders. Uplifting and making your partner happy would rekindle their self esteem and increase faith in you.

Don't compare your marriage with someone else's. Every person is different and so would their marriage be. Be faithful with each other. Trust and appreciate each other's opinions and ideas.

A Secret of happy married life is to fall in love again and again with one person, by ignoring their differences and tiffs. Perfect marriage  is built with a team work, mutual understanding and respect.  Both of you must equally distribute the responsibilities, always make conscious efforts to make your partner comfortable and relaxed, these things will help you to create marital bliss in your relationship.

A dawn is always followed by dark night, so if your marriage is going through a hard and tough times, then have faith in your relationship, this tough phase will end soon. When you unite in tough times, then nothing can break you apart. More marriages might survive if the couple realized that better comes after the worse.

Marriage is a bond of lifetime, so get used to of each other, and grow old with each other. Don't ever think that by passing years the love will decrease. There are many ways to keep your marriage full of sparks. Keep letting know your partner know, that how much you love him/her works like a wonder in your relationship.

Do fights, discussions and arguments but finally making it out. Don't allow your mind to revolve around these arguments and fight. Do, then sort it out mutually, without involving any third person. The more things are in between you, the more it will be easy for you to sort it out. The love between both of you should not die at any cost, that you can by letting yourself calm and then do sensible discussion to find solution of your problem. respect each other's views. "Don't think what happened yesterday, just love today". If you work on today definitely it will clear your past and will bright your future.

It is the responsibility of husband to keep his wife happy. You married her with vows to love and keep her happy in all possible ways. She is the only one for you for your entire life. Other relations we do share with others, like our mom dad we share with our brother sisters, but spouse is the only relation, which we can't share with anyone. So make this relationship more special, because there is no one else except you for your partner, that's why you must stand up by your vows of loving, caring, and understand her to keep her happy always.
Most important thing "Do not forget to invrst your time and love in the relationship."

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Thursday, October 10, 2019



There are different types of crystals, and each crystal has it's own unique healing abilities and metaphysical properties, which work with the energy chakras of the body to remove blocked energies and heal Body, Mind and Soul. Crystals increase the flow of good energy and remove negativity for emotional and physical benefits. When you use crystals it raises vibrations of body and renew energy to improve certain ailments and spiritual awakening.


Let your intution choose what is best for you. When a crystal catches your eye or when you feel physical pull towards one, choose that. Your inner subconscious will help to guide you to chooseeee that crystal which is right for you.


Hold the crystal in your hands, close your eyes and program your crystal with an intention by saying " I ask that the highest vibration of love and light connect with my highest self to clean all unwanted energy (and then tell you intention) .................. ". In the end say "Thank you" thrice.


Crystals need to be clean regularly. By using crystals it absorbs the negativity of the user, so it need to be cleanse away all the toxins and negativity.
Hold it under cold running water for few minutes to rinse it. it can be soak in sea salt, or burn sage, or keep it under full moon light to let the light filter through to get rid of unwanted energies.


AMETHYST:- It relieve pain and stress. It has incredibly protective, healing and purifying properties. It removes negativity and bring forth spiritual wisdom.

 CITRINE:- It removes fear from life and encourage optimism and motivation. It helps to bring jo, wonder and enthusiasm in life.

 CLEAR QUARTZ:- It's also known as "Master Healer". It clears the negativity to enhance higher spiritual receptiveness. It improves the connection between the spiritual and physical world by amplifying communications.

 JADE:- It carries calming energy which helps to find self acceptance and inner calm. It also relieve physical pain and flush out toxins from the body.

 JASPER:- It's a supreme nurturer crystal. It empower the spirit and support during stress situations. It protects from negativity and absorbs all negative vibes to promote courage, confidence and quick thinking.

 MOONSTONE:- It encourages inner growth and strength. It soothes uneasy feeling of stress and instability. It also promote positive thinking, intuition and inspiration to bring success and good fortune.

 ROSE QUARTZ:- It's a Love stone, which helps to restore trust and harmony in all kinds of relationships and improve close connections. It encorages, Love, Respect, Trust in relationships.

 TURQUOISE:- It has power to heal mind, body and spirit. It helps to balance emotions while finding spiritual groundings. It benefits immune system also.

TIGER'S EYE:- It helps to get rid of fear, anxiety, and self doubt. It is beneficial for career aspirations also. It guides to harmony and balance to make clean, conscious decisions.

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Friday, October 4, 2019



Very famous saying.. "WHAT GOES AROUND COMES AROUND" is for the basic understanding of how KARMA works and affects in your life. Karma means actions, which we have done or still doing in our lives. Mainly, it is believed that actions affect the quality of life. In general, it's a term about the cycle of cause and effect.

Normally, people says- "यह तो हमारी किस्मत में लिखा हुआ है यह तो होना ही है हम इसे बदल नहीं सकते" But it's not like this. Whatever we are receiving is the the result of what we have done in past. I explain this with the help of small story.

एक राजा ने सारे विद्वानों को बुलाया और पूछा कि मैं जब अपनी जन्मपत्री देख रहा था तो मैंने उसमें देखा कि मेरा राजा बनने का योग था लेकिन मेरा सवाल यह है कि उसी वक्त में उसी मुहूर्त में जब मैं पैदा हुआ उसी वक्त और बहुत सारे बच्चे पैदा हुए होंगे लेकिन वह सब राजा क्यों नहीं बने  ? 
यह सवाल सुनकर के हर कोई चौंका और उनको समझ नहीं आया  कि क्या जवाब दें तो एक ज्योतिष खड़े हुए उन्होंने कहा कि देखिये राजन सवाल तो आपका बहुत बढ़िया है लेकिन इसका जवाब आपको यहां से कोसों दूर घने जंगल में मिलेगा वहाँ एक महात्मा तपस्या कर रहे हैं आप उनके पास जाइए और जवाब जान लीजिये |  
राजा बोले ठीक है | तो राजा साहब अकेले घोड़े पर सवार होकर निकल चले, काफी दूर चलने जी बाद उन्हें जंगल में एक महात्मा जी नज़र आये,  राजा जी ने महात्मा को नमस्कार किया और देखा कि वह आग से अंगार निकाल कर खड़े थे और गरमा गरम कोयला खा रहे थे उन्हें समझ नहीं आया कि बाबा जी क्या कर रहे हैं, उन्होंने सोचा की चलो पूछते हैं  उनके पास जा करके पूछा कि बाबा जी मेरा सवाल यह है एक ही वक्त में इतने बच्चे पैदा हुए, सब राजा क्यों नहीं बने महात्मा जी गुस्सा हो गए और बोले कि तुम्हें इसका जवाब मैं नहीं दे सकता और दूर जाओ झरने के पास में वहां एक और महात्मा तपस्या कर रहे हैं वह तो किसी भी सवाल का जवाब दे सकते हैं अब राजा को अपने सवाल का जवाब जानने की बड़ी उत्सुकता थी वह वापस घोड़े पर सवार होकर के पास जंगल की और बढ़ा और झरने के पास देखा तो आंखे खुली की खुली रह गयी  | राजा ने देखा की वह महात्मा जी अपना ही मांस नोच कर खा रहे हैं, राजा से वह दृश्य देखा नाहिं गया फिर भी हिम्मत करके पहुंचा बाबा के पास और अपना सवाल दोहराया महात्मा जी को गुस्सा आ गया बोले कि मूर्ख इंसान यहां से निकल और बहुत दूर जा वहां एक गांव मिलेगा और उस गांव में एक चार पांच साल का बच्चा मरने वाला है उससे जाकर के अपने सवाल का जवाब मांगे राजा को समझने में आया की उसे अब उस  बच्चे से मिलना है जो कि मरने वाला है घोड़े पर सवार होके राजा उस गांव में पहुंचा जहां पर बच्चा तो दिखा  और उसके चारों और उसके मम्मी पापा और परिवार के सब लोग बैठे हुए हैं, राजा किसी प्रकार उस बच्चे को बचा लेता है तो उस से पूछता है कि मेरा एक सवाल है दो बाबा जी ने कहा कि आप ही जवाब दे सकते हैं तो बच्चा हंसते हुए बोला के राजा आपको बताना चाहता हूं कि वह जो दो महात्मा मिले और मैं जो हूं हम तीनों आपके भाई हैं |  सात जन्म पहले हम चारों राजकुमार थे और एक बार जंगल में भटकते भटकते दो-तीन दिन हो गए भूखे-प्यासे घूम रहे थे वहाँ हमें आटे की पोटली मिली और हम चारों ने रोटियां बनाइ हम उसे खाने ही वाले थे कि वहाँ एक बाबा जी आये उन्होंने आवाज निकाल कर कहा मुझे खाने के लिए रोटी दे दो तो हमारे जो सबसे बड़े भैया जिन्हें आपने देखा कि अंगार खा रहे थे उन्होंने कहा 
मैं क्यों दूं तुम्हें मैं क्या खाऊंगा ?
दूसरे वाले जो थे उन्होंने कहा कि मैं दो रोटी नहीं दे सकता अगर तुम्हें रोटी दूंगा तो मैं कितना मांस नोचकर के खाऊंगा 
तीसरे वाले यानि कि मैं, मैंने भी कहा की मैं नहीं दे सकता,मैं क्या खाऊंगा और मैंने उसको रवाना कर दिया 
चौथे राजकुमार आप आपने अपनी रोटी में से आधी रोटी उस व्यक्ति को दे दी 
उन्होंने आपको खुश हो करके कहा कि तुम्हें तुम्हारे कर्मो और व्यवहार के अनुसार ही आने वाले जन्म में फल मिलेगा 
इसीलिए आज आप राजा है.और हम सब. भुगत रहे हैं. 

So God created the situations, on that situation how you react or act, that reaction or action (karma) decides your future. Karma is an action, either physical, emotional, or mental, which you perform, it creates memory and produce a desire, which takes you to perform another action. 

"As you sow, so shall you reap". Your karmas or actions which you have "sown" or done in the past, those are the cause of what you are "reap" or receiving now. It can be bad or good depends on what you have done positive or negative karma in the past.

There are 4 types of Karmas:-

1) Sanchit Karma (accumalated actions)- Karmas which are pilled up or accumulated in all your previous birth and are yet to be resolved. Basically, it is your cosmic debt. Every action which you are doing now or today are either adding or reducing this cosmic debt. So, until this sanchit karma of your soul get zeroed, it keeps on birthing in new physical bodies, to balance your sanchit karma.

2) Prarabdha Karma ( Fructifying Karma)- These are actions in motion or karmas which you are doing in present incarnation is called PRARABDHA. Basically it is a portion of Sanchit karma, which is ripe enough to be experience by you, and assigned for this life time for you to work on. The better you work on it , the more your sanchit karma will get dissolved, or if you do not, it will keep on adding. Your birth horoscope is the blue print of your Prarabdha karma.

3) Kriyaman Karma (current karma)- When you are getting instant reaction of your current karma. For example- Someone shout at you, then in return how you react .... you will shout in return or you will stay calm. This instant reaction of that action is Kriyaman karma.

4) Agami Karma (Future karma)- It decides your future as a result of your good or bad deeds of the present actions or karma of current birth, with the bundle of your sanchit karma, the result will create your Agami karmas.

In a Nutshell, you can not control your destiny, but your Karmas can be corrected. So you should try your best to do all good deeds in current life, until or unless your sanchit karmas get zerod.

How to correct your karmas to nullify Sanchit karmas.... this i will explain in next blog.

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Monday, September 30, 2019


 HOW TO FOCUS.......?

FOCUS is the gateway of learning, memory, reasoning, perception, problem solving etc. So, when you focus to achieve something in your life, you will reach your goals. If you fail to focus, you will end up with wasting your time and energy on useless things. Most of people failed to achieve their goals, and later they blame outside factors. These outside factors (family, surroundings, technology, peer pressure etc) will always be part of your life. you have to learn, how to manage all these outside factors while achieving your goals. Distraction will always comes in your ways, but you have to choose, remain focused or get distracted. It can be harder or challenging to always remain focused, but there is no fun without any challenges. It's always pleasant to see beautiful dawn, after a dark night. If you will overcome the distractions, then definitely you can easily focused on the goal, like a camera and will able to take perfect shot of your life.

Try few tricks which will help you to stay focused:-

 * Organize your thoughts, then go step by step towards your goal. Goal can be any- success in exams, promotion at work place etc. Don't try to jump else you may fall. Be patient and regular, always remind yourself what is your goal and why you set this goal. Continuous reminder will help you to stay away from distractions and stay focused.

* Know the importance of being consistent on your every step. So, if sometimes you are not in mood to study or work, then do some small proactive thing that will take you towards your ultimate goal- for example a small book exercise, or a small presentation of your work. Staying focused is absolutely with in your reach. You sometimes don't know your capabilities but always trust yourself. Remind yourself- "YOU CAN DO IT."

* Use "DO NOT DISTURB" sign board, mute your phone, close the TV or Computer etc, minimize your distractions. Tell your colleagues or classmates, your family members to speak to you at the right time instead of interrupting in every 10 minutes.

* Eat healthy and at right time will help you to be more productive. You can't focused if you have done over eating or if you are hungry.

* You need to get enough sleep. Lack of sleep adversely affect your health, and feeling sleepy will not let you focused.

* You have to trained your mind to stay focused. Do meditation, exercicse or gym. This will improve your concentration power.Train your focus ability. You can start will 5 minutes and gradually increase your duration.

* Plan your time appropriately, and train your mind to do every work on it's time. When you have a proper time planning, it will be much easier for you to stay focused. Don't forget to take proper break in between to give some rest to your mind.

        In life nothing is free, you have to pay something to get something. Something is free only when it has no value. So, if you want to be successful in life, you need to give up your laziness, wastage of time, and start spending time, energy, effort and knowledge towards your goal.  If you are able to stay focused, you will be productive, and will able to complete your work in record time.

Saturday, September 28, 2019


Navaratri in sanskrit means nine nights, which is dedicated to the nine forms of MAA DURGA . In these nine nights, nine forms of Shakti are worshiped. Every single day of Navratri is dedicated to one form of Goddess Durga and she is worshiped by devotees on this day.


It is on the 1st day of Navaratri, Ashwin Shukla Pratipada,

Timings:- 06:34 AM to 07:54 AM (morning)

Navratri Day 1 (Ekam) Sep 29, 2019   (Sunday)  Shailputri Puja
Navratri Day 2     (Dwitiya) Sep 30, 2019   (Monday) Brahmacharini Puja
Navratri Day 3     (Tritiya) Oct 1, 2019     (Tuesday) Chandraghanta Puja
Navratri Day 4     (Chaturthi)  Oct 2, 2019     (Wednesday) Kushmanda Puja
Navratri Day 5     (Panchami)   Oct 3, 2019    (Thursday) Skandamata Puja
Navratri Day 6     (Shashthi) Oct 4, 2019    (Friday)  Katyayani Puja
Navratri Day 7     (Saptami)    Oct 5, 2019     (Saturday) Kalaratri Puja
Navratri Day 8     (Ashtami)   Oct 6, 2019     (Sunday) Durga Mahaashtami,
Navratri Day 9     (Navami) Oct 7, 2019     (Monday) Maha Navami
Navratri Day 10   (Dashami)  Oct 8, 2019     (Tuesday) Durga Visarjan, Vijayadashami

First day of Navratri is dedicated to the first incarnation of Mother Durga. Devotees pay obeisance to Shailputri Mata on this day. In this avatar, she is worshiped like a baby girl and the daughter of a mountain.
On this day, the devotees wear yellow clothes 
and offer ghee to the mother.

On the second day, Goddess Durga is worshiped as Brahmacharini Devi.

On the second day wear white clothes
and offer sugar to the mother.

The third day is dedicated to Goddess Chandraghanta. It is believed that by worshiping this form of Goddess, all your sufferings are eradicated and your desire is fulfilled.

On this day, the devotees wear brown clothes
and offer milk or kheer to the goddess.

The fourth day or Chaturthi is dedicated to Goddess Kushmanda. It is believed that by worshiping this form of Goddess and fasting, all the sufferings and diseases of the devotee are removed.

On this day, the devotees wear orange clothes
and offer Maalpua to Maa Kushmanda.

The fifth day is dedicated to Skandamata Devi. It is believed that worshiping this form of Goddess fulfills all the wishes of the devotees.

On Panchami, wears bright clothing
and offer banana to the goddess.

On the Shashthi or sixth day, Goddess Katyayini is worshiped.

On this day, the devotees wear red clothes
and offer honey to appease the Goddess.

Saptami or seventh day is dedicated to Goddess Kalratri. In this avatar, the goddess protects her devotees from any evil and gives happiness.

 On this day, the devotees wear blue clothes
and offer jaggery to the Goddess.

Ashtami is dedicated to Goddess Mahagauri. It is believed that by worshiping this form of Goddess, all sins of the devotees are washed away.

On this day, the devotees wear pink 
and offer coconut to the goddess.

The ninth day or Navami is dedicated to Goddess Siddhidatri. Worshiping this form of Goddess fulfills all the wishes of the devotees.

On this day, the devotees wear purple color
and offer sesame to the Goddess.


Wednesday, 6 October 2019.

 Ashtami Tithi Begins = 09:51 AM on Oct 05, 2019
 Ashtami Tithi Ends = 10:54 AM on Oct 06, 2019

 Durga Puja Visarjan: Saturday, 8 October 2019.   

 Vijay Muhurat = 02:24 PM to 03:10 PM
 Aparahna Puja Time = 01:37 PM to 03:57 PM

 Durga Visarjan Time = 06:37 AM to 08:57 AM


                                                                        JAI MATA DI
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Thursday, September 26, 2019



You do not need magic to change your destiny, you carry all the power you need inside yourself. Already you have the power to imagine better and turn your dreams into reality. Through visualization, you can turn your abstract wishes into a picture that not only inspire you, infact guide you.
There are billions of informations that are coming into brains at any point in time. There is everything you see, feel, touch, hear, smell, taste but your brain is filtering out billions of bits of information every single second. So the power of visualization is the reason, through this you are training your brain what to look for on the path to whatever you are trying to get.

For this you need to follow three points:- GOAL, PATH AND SCREEN

Your GOAL - What is the goal that you are working towards..? What you are looking to get to....? That's usually the clearest part of it. Follow the priority instead of putting down goal that are lower than you actually want.

Then the PATH, is the second part which is little bit fuzzy. You have to start doing some efforts towards that goal. You have to imagine of your future every single morning, so when you know that what your goal is, or what you want to do with your life, you will have rough idea of what the PATH is.

The SCREEN- when you know what is your path, then all you need to do is remind yourself of it, every single morning and then start visualizing every morning for 10 minutes. So. as you are going through this process, you may start getting those feelings of " I am not enough through". or " I can't get that big goal." Avoid these thoughts, this way you will go little bit lower. So, don't allow yourself to go lower. Allow yourself to dream as big as you possibly can. And see that goal as if you are actually there.
With this your brain is going to activate, through Reticular activating system and people, places , things, opportunities will start to come into your life, because your brain is not going to filter them out anymore. You are going to start to see the people that you need to make thr connections with. You are going to see the opportunities, that will get you to that goal, and then your life will start to fall into place.

So, as you are going through this process and visualizing today and every single day, you will notice the future that seemed impossible will just some how finding themselves, their way into your life.

P.S This process is part of LAW OF ATTRACTION. Follow this link to know more about Law of Attraction. https://www.upgradeinnerself.com/2019/07/law-of-attraction.html

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Saturday, September 21, 2019

Why positive thinking doesn't work?


If you want to make your dreams come true, you have to think positive always. As universe response only positive vibes. But when you try to think positive, generally you don't succeed in that. There is really one big problem with trying to think positive, And I am going to tell you what is that. I will make you understand this with the help of a glass filled with water.

This glass represent you and your mind, how you are born with Crystal clear mind- perfect, no flaws, a clear slate . But then life happens, you are told how how you have to fit in, you are told what you have supposed to do, what is not acceptable, what society wants. Some people told that you are stupid, you are fat , you are not enough. You have failed in relationship. You compare yourself with other people and then what happens..  ???? ...............

You get NEGATIVE. Your clear mind which was clear.....is now getting dirty with negativity, and we start having negative self talks. So not only negativity is there outside of you but the negativity inside of you. Life happens. It's impossible to go through life, without getting some scars. But then you hear that you should THINK POSITIVE, and now you start thinking positive.....but with positive thinking,  you are still thinking about past. If you keep on thinking about what happened in past with positive thinking....then positive thinking will not work out. It's like keep on Stirling dirty water.....then this dirty water will never get clear .......ever. At this point most people give up. They say that Positive thinking doesn't work. Well if you go this way of course it doesn't work.

You have to leave your Past behind. Don't think about what happened. You have to search for the positive thinking in your life. You have to find the things to be GREAT FULL for, the things to be HAPPY about. You have to be INTENTIONAL about creating POSITIVE RELATIONSHIP and an ENVIRONMENT in your life that's positive. Because THINKING POSITIVE ISN'T SOMETHING THAT YOU DO SOMETIMES, IT'S SOMETHING THAT YOU HAVE TO DO ALL THE TIME. You have to be proactive about it. You have to realize that the world is inherently negative. And you have to be intentional everyday about filling yourself with positivity. If you do that then like this class all dirt, negativity will settle down, it will no more trouble you......and clear water will be there on top. Our mind will become also crystal clear. Bury the past.. find positivity in everything, bless everyone...this will continue clear mind thinking. Because POSITIVE THINKING ISN'T SOMETHING THAT YOU DO SOMETIMES, IT'S SOMETHING THAT YOU HAVE TO DO ALL OF THE TIME.

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Monday, September 16, 2019

Self Evaluation


I believe it is very important for every person who wants to do their best in a life to take a moment to evaluate themselves.  You should work to determine your purpose of life and how you can continue to advance your life's standard. When you looked through your own work you asked yourself “what have I learned in this life?” and “what do I still need to learn in order to improve my life?”

You need to evaluate your current capacity and situation. Then, you need to compare that state to the goals you want to achieve.

How much space is there between the person you are and the individual you want to become?

One of the first changes you should make is in the way you use your time. That’s where the evaluation begins. Take notes and track your activities throughout the day. After few days, you’ll notice a pattern.

You’ll recognize the activities that are consuming your time and efficiency. There is a name for them: distractions. You need to become aware of these weaknesses and do everything to avoid them.

Self evaluation leads to self evolution.
When you evaluate your capacity well enough, you get to know how much work you can handle. Then you’ll be able to organize your activities throughout the day and achieve the best results with the least effort.

Monday, September 9, 2019



Have you ever noticed, why some trees fall in a storm, while some other tress don't? The reason is their strong deep roots. A tree that develops a deep roots can withstand heavy storm without tumbling to the ground, on the contrary if roots are not deep enough, it will fall very easily.

Same thing applicable with human beings also, which is known as Grounding. Every person should be grounded like a tree with feet firmly planted on the ground, outstretch the arms like branches without knowing what this world will give back in return. The way trees shed down their dead leaves , same way you should forget your past, live in present and work for your future prospects.

Grounding allows you to stabilize and help you to release unwanted energies and helps your body to use all your talents to know their value in the world and give birth to your visions and goals. when we are connected to the Earth, energies from the Earth feed and heal your physical body and your Aura. On the other hand, being Ungrounded, make things harder to create and difficult to achieve what you desire. Little things that you do ordinarily may upset you deeply and feel like you are on a emotional rollercoaster. You may find hard to concentrate , easily become overwhelmed,  and may have difficulty in concentrating. Your thoughts can whir round and round and your head become so full with negative energies. If I talk about extreme ungrounded situation, it make you a over reactor, you exaggerate your problems because you expand a lot of energy unnecessary or inappropriately, and you may experience extreme exhaustion and feel restless or lethargic without any apparent reason.


Nature is the best way to make you feel grounded very quickly. 
Stand barefoot on a ground, close your eyes and visualize that you are a tree and you are growing roots out from your feet which go deep into the earth. The Earth is full of powerful energies and when there is a barefoot contact, free electrons from the earth can be absorbed by body, which nourish our body, mind and soul.

Hug a tree, press the whole front of your body against the trunk. Tree will absorb all your negative energy and drain away all unhelpful & repetitive thoughts from your body, and leave you with clarity of thoughts and clear vision. It will make you feel safe, calm and relaxed.

Take a Shower Meditation, every time you take a shower and visualize washing away all your anxiety & stress. Concentrate on the feel of the water upon your skin. Envision the power of shower washing away all your negative thoughts, fear, regret, and ager soaping off you and swirling down the drain.

Walk barefoot on grass or along a beach. It helps to calm your mind and reduce tensions. When you walk barefoot on grass, earth's surface electrons will be transferred into your body, and the negative charge electrons from your body will be absorbed and neutralized by the earth. Research shows that walking barefoot on grass helps to decrease stress level by 62 percent. Do meditate on a ground, lie and stare at the sky, let the nature sink in and ground you in earth. It allows you to focus your mind to feel more balanced and aware.

It is essential that you remain grounded. This practice literally grounds you in the same way like a lightning rod grounds electrical energy , which is known as Earthing. If you link yourself with ground, it will be easy for you, to deal with all problems of life without getting affected, and people around you feel more comfortable & you begin to feel more at peace in your life.

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